Why does it seem like every relationship I see seems to be one of convenience. Everyone I know who is in a relationship of some kind complains about their partner. Why don’t people talk to their partners if there is a problem? Who better to talk to then the person you have an issue with (a.k.a loved ones). Why won’t someone get out of a bad marriage or relationship if they know it’s bad? Contrary to popular believe, it’s not usually going to get any better! If it sucks now, it’s going to suck 10 years from now! Why would you want to wake up 10-15 years from now and realize you wasted your life with the wrong person! While your being lazy because of convenience, you may have missed your true love! People love to stay with what they know!
Everyone needs to talk to their significant other! If the communication isn’t there, it’s doomed! How do you get to know someone without listening! You have to use your ears, heart, and mind!
God also gave you that gut feeling for a reason. Why you ask? So you could avoid the situations that you know are bad cause you can feel them, but your dumbass does it anyway!
Okay, you want answers – here goes:
P1-Ya know, sometimes the ‘convenience’ lends to one or the other not listening – therefore the other feels that they need to rant to friends. Can’t make someone listen to you if they think that nothing is wrong. People have beliefs/values, that suggest that they can’t leave their SO – (no divorce for Catholics – I realize there is however it is frowned upon usually). For some people they think that they are staying together for the kids – UGH! I completely HATE this reason, but it is their reason until they figure out differently. I agree with you on the front of if it sucks now it will suck later – esp. if their is no listening and communication.
P2 – totally agree – but there are dumbasses out there that are all about themselves and not anyone else.
P3-Some people learn by example (their parents), don’t blame it all on the dumbass if s/he just doesn’t know any better – or that there are other options out there!
Also, re: P1 – there is also the saying “Pick and choose your battles” – let me tell you honey, even the LOVE of your life will get on your freakin’ nerves – Pick and Choose dude!
By: wbppsh7 on September 24, 2008
at 12:32 pm
About time you make a new post. Hey look at the bright side you’re not bitter LOL. Seriously people just dont give a flying flaming donkey frak anymore. That is why i gave up on dating.
By: obison on September 26, 2008
at 2:29 am
obi – you are so full of shit – you haven’t given up – you haven’t quit bitchin’ about it yet!!!! You just say you’ve given up – but you are still looking around. lol – you know I gotta call you out on this!
By: Ali on September 29, 2008
at 12:56 pm
What?! What shit full of what? have i said anything about going out on a date lately. Uh NO. So there for I’m NOT dating. All the dating sites are the same BS. Besides you will not yet me clone you
and yea i’m going to bitch about it. God damn you either want to date or not. Now my thinking maybe off on that thought but i guess other people think they need to launch a fuck’n rocket to the moon. If ya are on a dating site you want to date or piss off the other people on thinking you want to date.
hee hee now that is a rant comment ah ah
By: Obi-son on September 30, 2008
at 2:42 am